1. Find Something Interesting.
In high school or colleges, try finding places that interests you and go there often. If there are clubs at your school, join one--it's a great way to find people that have things in common with you. But when doing so, consider being yourself in order to root out people's recluse behaviour towards you. Enjoy everything you're doing and try to fight nervousness whenever possible.
2. Fight for Confidence.
Befor you go out of your house, do some stretches and everything you think can make you confidence for the day.
3. Consider Only Natural Ability.
Avoid taking drugs as it'll affect your individual flexibility over a situation. Know what is good for you before going into it.
4. Whatever you do, wherever you go just keep in mind that honesty is still the best policy.
Don't Creepy pick up Guy.
Creepy Pickup Guy is Creepy because he treats women as "targets." He talks to girls just and collect their numbers immediately not just because he likes them but because He thought He should. Not every girl deserves to be gamed however the situation, honesty is still the best policy. Mr Perfect is always Mr Honest which gains him more confidence to face everyone with the same face.
5. Interact with strangers. Talk to everyone you meet including strangers. If you don't want people to recognize your transformation, meet strangers and pretend you're social and confidence, surely they'll be friendly to you by helping you to attain your goal. Once confident arrives, start getting convo while others are talking. Social life is easy to implement because once you're social guy, everyone will talk to you or involve you in many talks, discussions and push you through comfort zone. Don't try to build connection where there are non.
Using Social Sites To Be a Social Guy
Fortunately, today there are many means to get over shyness and be as social guy as you want. Facebook is great way to adopt you into a social life. Try to make many mutual friends as possible. Make friends that know you personally, and try to interact with them as many times possible. Tease the opposite gender, talk to people you can't talk to physically, leave them a funny message. Next you meet will be different and you'll eventually create a bond between each other.
Update very emotional statues, tell them what you're in for the benefit of every comment and popularity. Comment on comments: "LoL" is not a comment, try to apply some inspiration while commenting. Don't post a bored comment or soon people will unfriend you.
There are many sites that host short jokes and funny sayings. Copy and paste one atleast each day on your statues update in order to attract people's attention. Many people including me, use facebook for fun, either when am bored or was annoyed. You'll bring laughter to many people while you post your best jokes. As a whole, people will try to glance to your profile everyday they log in to check for new joke update. Be humorous the best way you can -- be yourself.
Tip to Every Social Self-Improvement
When you talk to people make eye contact for atleast 30 seconds and don't stare. Holding eye contact is a form a gaining confidence to showing you are honest about your statues. Self affirmation or self talk is a great way of proving you believe yourself. Try to ask people about themselves and sympathize with their problems. Learn people's common interest and find away you could catch fun through the same channel. Once people are aware of your fun life, they'll enjoy your company, thus helping you to be a social guy. Talk to friends on phone to increase the bond between your interaction. Don't be by yourself instead, work on people and talk for sometime -- there is always a reason to make friends and our aim is to make many. Find a way to be happy, optimistic and positive. Always believe in yourself to prove you are exactly who you want to be. Transformation without recollection is like a moving skeleton. It's ok to be selective with friends, for not everyone is easy going.
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