People are more confident when they exhibit some particular traits here and there but I've come to a silence realization that some of this individuals are very confident to the extent one can call it talent. Based on my research and analyzation I've compiled this steps on how to be very confident inside and outside. It is simple and more easier than the way it looks.
Like I've said earlier, for you to be "very confident" you must both apply the internal and external techniques of emotional control and physical indulgenment in interaction and conversing with people. Health consist of two important imaginary pillars; physical and emotional. The more healthier you are the well your intent shall be covered properly.
1. Proper Physical Appearance. Maintain a proper and normal physical appearance between personal hygiene and interconnectional mindedness. Do not imitate people's appearance because it usually don't work and the worse part is to make your look worser, thereby bringing more stares from every corner and then discomfort will come through simple "nervousness". Consider your likes and stay unique by honouring them. Just assume yours as the best out of the rest. If you are traditional, stay in your fashion unless you felt some discomfort about it. Just stay comforted with your appearance before the next step.
2. Perfume and Body Odour.
After your distance appearance, the next attention should go to what you smell like. In this case also, you should consider what type of perfume irritates people and the one that does not. Perfumes with fruitful smell are more appreciable and normal in terms of public interference with both strangers and friends. Do not overdo this to avoid negative result out of your positive intent. Just work your way fine to avoid irritating people by a new perfume or your natural body odour.
3. Forget About Your Fight For Confidence.
Once you've done the three steps above to become a very confident person, just forget about your mission of gaining confident. Talk more and play much to get out of your comfort zone. Don't be either serious nor silly, but be open to others and play jokes as many times as possible. Accept gaining confidence as playing cards -- so it is simpler and fun.
4. Meet Strangers.
Find a place where strangers are and talk more with them. This might be hard for some people, but it is better and fine when both of you have the same or opposing interests. For example, football debate is the most popular discussion that can brings body relaxation and confident in speech.The second example is music which may be more reasonable while a popular track from a famous and known singer is playing. Comment on the songwriter, singer, or the entire lyrics -- you can't miss discussion or go fighting, looking for what to utter. Do not make things so bored by entering directly, be wise as serpent upon every approach.
5. Be Jokey.
This does not involve going to books and websites that offer joke stories and sayings. Play with people of different age, less or more. Tease them on leasure hours but relent when everyone else is serious. No one is born humourless, among all, just try your nature for experiment. There is no big failure than failure to TRY.
6. Be a Story Teller.
Proudly to be a local news server on both political and modern issues. Listen to governmental news and understand much about constitution which helps greatly to be perseved knowledgable person, therefore, drawing much attention to your person and confident to your emotion. Prudent person is always smart about those things and analyze them according to his own personal perspective. Don't just tell stories as news or gossip, make it a part of debate in order to be presentable and acceptable.
8. Enjoy Stares.
Lastly, to be a very confident person you must not give-in to the "power of eye." Stare looks awkward in some cases but also enjoyable to make you proud about your personality. Be happy for just being recognized by the guys around and build more confident by staring back while repeating the same thing that makes people stare at the first place.
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