Life was never meant to be sorrowful or disastrous. It doesn't matter where you are, what you have or what you are to be confidently successful and achieve all of your intent with time. Hope and confidence is written step by step to motivate both your emotion and be confident in life the way you deserve.
1. Trust Your Ability. In so many ways, self-assurance is a self confident that can take you anywhere you anticipated for. Everyone has a different talent, even though talents are named the same among individuals, yours is very unique to an extent you could just make it everywhere disregard of competitions. Be it building a house, carpentry, singing or even plumbing, when you trust in an ability you are good at, I promise a breakthrough in future and confidence to live by.
2. Set a Goal. Useless of your talents and abilities in life without setting an achievable goal. Even without a teacher or guide, chasten your body to work towards your life future. Lack of confidence comes from lack of plan and failure to use our time wisely. Once you set a goal, try to fulfill them by avoiding barricageS of disappointments and humiliation.
3. Do not worry. Do not let anxiety drop your confidence to a zero level. Everyone has something personal to have confidence about, with no minorities, make it a subject of discussion with your person. Build confidence for yourself, for you run your life and the future comes shaped all for you.
4. Leave Above the Fear of Failure. This is very far above the rim of every humanity endurances, but a little disappointment means a little less confidence, when failure creeps in for real then the discomfort about future would be worser than was ever imagined. Failure is an experience, in fact, no knowledge is wasted, and hopefully when you failed today, tomorrow will also come with its own unique design of opportunities. Failure is not failure unless you fail to try again, but all for real, do not let the same failure to happen for the second time on the same reason.
5. Live Above your Expectations. Do not over estimate neither underestimate your attainments, instead, pray for the biggest, work for the biggest and live in expectance of the worthful. Little doubt is the cause of self-humiliation, but the only need to avoid doubt and gain confidence in this life is self-trust and high expectancy. Don't you know, low expectancy brought about low dedication and less prayer?
6. Do not cling to only one HOPE. If you can sing, definitly you can also be a writer, or if you can design a house, no doubt you can try building someday. It doesn't matter how downgrading it is, for "we use the smaller opportunities to open the bigger ones." Life is not hard unless you try to make it hard for yourself. Therefore, in order to be confidence about life respect the "less" to bring about an unusual success along the line.
7. You are deservable. Know that you deserve what you need in life, no one deserves it more than you. In some cases, you need to be self-assertive to step into this position knowing that everything happens to you is according to your likes and dislikes, thus your confidence in this case relies on your opinion and decision.
8. Accept Knowledge to gain prudence. I'll do "no good" if I neglect knowledge as the basis of every achievement and success. Without knowledge confidence in life will rely on other individual's "progress of decision" as a result it is not firm to stand on its own as a "pillar". A knowledgable individual is literate of life and knows how to run it according to His personal plan and spacing.
9. Genuine Beliefs and Disbelieves. Life has now take a new twist that the majority of what you experienced or what you are going to experience is because of BELIEF. Things occur in accordance to your genuine believes. Do not claim or name yourself after a bad word, character or even answer a proposition upon negative deriviatives. Once you don't believe in misfortunes, they won't come to you directly or even indirectly.
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